Are You a Romantic or a Realist?

Hopeless romantic, practical realist, or a little of both?

Answer 8 quick questions about how you see love to find out whether you are a romantic, a realist, or a bit of both.

Are You a Romantic or a Realist?

8 questions · About 1 minute

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Questions Overview

All 8 questions in this quiz — take a look before you start.

  1. 1
    Pick the love story you believe in.
    • •Love at first sight
    • •Love that grows slowly
    • •Love that is both magic and work
    • •A grand romantic gesture
  2. 2
    Do you believe in soulmates?
    • •Yes — one person, made for me, out there somewhere
    • •No — love is a choice you make every day
    • •Maybe — a spark matters, but so does the work
  3. 3
    Your idea of romance is…
    • •Surprise flowers, love letters, dancing in the rain
    • •Showing up on time, remembering the details, being reliable
    • •A bit of both — grand gestures AND everyday care
    • •A handwritten note left where they will find it
  4. 4
    Pick the date night you would plan.
    • •A rooftop dinner under the stars
    • •Cooking together at home, no fuss
    • •A picnic with fairy lights in the park
    • •Recreating our first date, detail by detail
  5. 5
    When a relationship gets hard, you…
    • •Fight for it — true love conquers everything
    • •Talk it through honestly and make a plan
    • •Feel the love, then fix the problem together
  6. 6
    What matters more in love?
    • •The feeling — butterflies, sparks, magic
    • •The partnership — trust, respect, teamwork
    • •Both — a spark without trust burns out fast
    • •The little moments that make you smile
  7. 7
    Your friends call you…
    • •The hopeless romantic of the group
    • •The sensible one who keeps everyone grounded
    • •The one who believes in love AND keeps it real
  8. 8
    Pick the word that is your love.
    • •Magic
    • •Trust
    • •Balance
    • •Destiny
    • •Honesty
    • •Both