What Is Your Love Language?

Questions Overview

All 10 questions in this quiz — take a look before you start.

1. 1
   Pick the moment that makes you feel most loved.

   • •A heartfelt love letter
   • •A surprise gift, just because
   • •A long hug after a hard day
   • •An evening with no phones, just us
2. 2
   Your partner has had a terrible day. You…

   • •Tell them exactly why they are amazing
   • •Cook their favourite meal without being asked
   • •Hold them close and say nothing at all
   • •Cancel everything and spend the evening together
3. 3
   Which compliment would melt you completely?

   • •“You make every day better just by being you.”
   • •“I noticed — so I fixed it for you.”
   • •A slow dance in the kitchen, no words needed
   • •“I cleared my whole weekend — it is all yours.”
4. 4
   Pick the gift you would love to receive.

   • •A handwritten poem
   • •A handmade present
   • •A cosy blanket for two
   • •Tickets for a day out together
5. 5
   When you miss someone, you…

   • •Send a long message telling them how much they mean to you
   • •Drop off their favourite snacks at their door
   • •Count the hours until you can hug them again
   • •Plan the perfect day for when you meet again
6. 6
   Your ideal anniversary is…

   • •Vows renewed — we say what we love about each other
   • •A surprise I planned down to the last detail
   • •Slow dancing at home, just the two of us
   • •A full day together, from sunrise to midnight
7. 7
   What do you remember most about your best relationship moment?

   • •The exact words they said to me
   • •The little thing they did without being asked
   • •The way it felt to be held
   • •That we had nowhere else to be
8. 8
   Your partner is busy all week. What hurts most?

   • •No sweet messages — I feel forgotten
   • •Nobody takes care of the small things for me
   • •No cuddles — I miss being close
   • •No time together at all
9. 9
   How do you say “I love you” without words?

   • •I write it — notes, texts, little letters everywhere
   • •I show it — I fix, I cook, I take care of things
   • •I hold their hand a little tighter
   • •I simply show up — every time, no matter what
10. 10
    Pick the word that feels like love to you.

    • •Words
    • •Actions
    • •Touch
    • •Time
    • •Honesty
    • •Care